Name : Ono Suswono
Class : 4 K
Parents Should be Educating Children Well
Introduction
How should parents educate children? Parents actually become the most
important figure towards children psychological development. Due to their role,
children can grow up perfectionist normally. Indeed, A good or bad personality
of Children depends on how parents educate their children the way of life. They
will act normal based on expectations if we are always capable of implanting positive
value and other kindness thing, whereas they will do the bad thing which’s contrary
to wishes if we show the bad attitude. All parents surely don’t want their
children to grow into gloomy or naughty. Of course, parents look forward to seeing
children happy and better than them in the future.
Unfortunately,
sometimes children are derelict since parents has been busy with many
activities or even ignored intentionally . After all, the intensity of meeting
between parents and children are lowered unexpectedly. Children lost the
guidance and education, then they have no instrument figure as well. One next
parents mistake is they assume that send a child at school is enough to educate
them so that they trust it. Whereas, education of parents is also very
important and determine the child in the future. With the education of the
parents so the child's personality is easily formed. Then
how to educate children properly, the following explanation will explain how to
educate children
1. Teach Self-reliance and
responsibility from an early age
Teach
children to be independent since childhood and not always dependent on other
people so that
the child will be able to be responsible for himself and others.
2. Teach Children In Order To Be
Diligent In Doing Everything
By teaching
children to be more diligent is expected to make positive effect for themselves
in order to be more active. Children are trying to do the task from anyone as
soon as possible.
3. Scold the Child Smoothly
Don't say
rude moreover with violence when children have faults. Reprove them with soft
words in order to make the child feel no fear.
4. Teach and Grow Social Sense,
Sympathetic, also Empathy.
Take your
child out of the House to be able to socialize with people. Especially with
neighbors near so that within the child will grow a sense of sympathy, empathy
and caring towards each other. and told them that we are social creatures.
5. Give Children A good Example
Give a child
a good example so that children can follow our desires being of good character.
After seeing
the above explanations and the video about how to educate children can be
concluded that the child should be given the attention and affection and trust.
Parents should realize fully that their child will absorb every thing and Genesis
were therefore the best example is the environment your family. Don't over do
it protect children and don't over ignore children. Family affection is the key
to success in educating children.
